10 Simple Acts of Kindness to Spread Happiness

How To Spread Happiness

 

I decided to share 10 simple acts of kindness to spread happiness and how to spread positivity and make someone’s day a little bit better not only during the holidays but all year round.

As I was trying to think about what kind of blog post I could do for the November / December time frame. I didn’t have any specials for Small Business Saturday or even Black Friday

Action for Happiness is an amazing site. You can get these calendars to help you and your family do an  action every day to make someone’s day. 

When you sign up you will receive an email from Mark and his team. Much like this on that I received.

Hello Ann,

It’s wonderful that you’ve joined the Action for Happiness community, helping to create a happier and kinder world.

Although we are a relatively small UK-based charity, we have hundreds of thousands of supporters like you making amazing things happen worldwide!

Whether you joined via our website, app, or a local course, I wanted to make you aware of some of the great ways we can support you to take action and make a real difference.

Very best wishes,

Mark and the team
Action for Happiness

They have Monthly Action Calendars and even Action for Happiness App and much, much more.

How to share happiness

I know some that go out of their way to spread happiness. While others cannot even fathom helping out others (Bah Hum Bug)The one example that comes to mind is Amber Dinh, and she has been an advocate about educating others about homelessness for years.

Amber works tirelessly in helping our homeless friends. Sharing items such as food, clothing, hygiene products she is always looking for donations to help in her journey.

To learn more about her and her journey, or if you would like to help please contact her at Facing Homelessness – Denver

“I know that there no simple answers or fixes to the homeless crisis, but I do know that a community of people in any city across the world can make a local impact on people living outside.”

10 Simple Acts of kindness

Just a few Simple Acts listed here:

 

  • You can compliment a stranger, or even a smile helps go a long way.
  • Volunteer in a retirement community
  • Visit at a school and read a story to a group of children
  • Hold a door for someone
  • Carry groceries for a mom with her hands full or an elderly individual.
  • Donate food to the nearest food pantry
  • Spend time at the neighborhood library to straighten shelves
  • Give forward, so if you are in line at Starbucks, buy the person behind you a cup of hot coffee or pay for their order.
  • Give a mom a hand when you see that she looks like she’s had enough with a screaming child.
  • Lastly, there are many more listed on happiness.com

Random Acts of Kindness

Originally founded by the Random Acts of Kindness Foundation in 1995, the idea of Random Acts of Kindness Day has grown in popularity ever since. It’s celebrated by individuals, groups, and organizations throughout the USA and worldwide, to encourage acts of kindness and spread happiness through communities. 

Indeed, Random Acts of Kindness day is 24 hours when people have the chance to spread love and happiness to as many people as possible. But why should we be kind to others? Well, the power of kindness and its benefits are many.

Random acts of kindness lead to scientifically-proven positive feelings, both for the giver and the receiver. Plus, happiness is contagious, so it creates a ripple effect. (Happiness.com)

 

 

Don’t Drink & Drive 

As November and December come around it is a stressful time for families for individuals. There are already so many people I see that have stepped up and shared or want to share during the holiday season.

 

As always, during the holiday season, a message brought to you by the  Castle Rock Police Department

Thanksgiving to New Year’s is some of the deadliest days on our roadways. Do your part by planning for a safe ride home #TieOneOnForSafety #NoMoreVictims

Too often, we see drivers making the wrong decision to drive impaired. That’s why MADD and the Castle Rock Police are joining together to send a clear message to Colorado’s drivers: If you drive drunk or high, you will be arrested. No exceptions. No excuses!

If your plans include alcohol, they should also include a non-drinking designated driver. With all of the rideshare options and an increase in those drivers in Castle Rock, there is no excuse to drive impaired. Castle Rock Police Department

 

Offer someone a ride or Don’t Drink and Drive

Does my child need a reading tutor?

Does My Child Need A Reading Tutor?

You struggle every night trying to get your child to do the required 20 or 30 minutes of reading, they resist. The books they bring home are just like any other child’s in their class so, you think nothing of it, right? Well, that’s just what I have heard a few parents say. Does your child know how to choose books that are at their level so that they can read at night? Wouldn’t it be easier? Not arguing, no nightly battles to get reading or, even that homework finished. But, they want to choose books just like everyone else in their class.

 

So, the question is, do you know how to help them choose a book at their level or a “just right” book? Or do you need someone to help you and your child? Have you ever thought your child may need a tutor?

There are so many questions when choosing to look for a tutor.

How do I know if my child needs a tutor?

Families are busy, and kids are busy, I understand we are a busy family too.  Are your child’s grades slipping? Do you notice them becoming quiet and may be frustrated when it is time to read or even doing their homework? You may ask friends, family, their teacher for support. The answers are it is just a part of life. Or he’s just a boy. I’ve heard that one.

 

NINE Signs Your Child Needs Tutoring

 

  1. Difficulty getting started. Does your child seem unexcited and unmotivated about anything to do with school—especially working on assignments? 
  2. Homework is sloppy or refuses to do it and overall disorganization.
  3. Personality change, maybe more moody.
  4. Diminished self-esteem. Lack of confidence.
  5. Lack of interest in learning?
    6. Teacher or counselor recommends it.
    7. Anxiety or frustration before tests.
    8. Loss of interest in learning or going to school.
    9. Feelings of wanting to give up.

How much tutoring does my child need?

After you have decided to look for a tutor, the next question you may have is, how much tutoring does my child need? The answer to this question is different for every child. For example, you just went to parent-teacher conferences, and your child’s teacher brings up that your child is not meeting grade-level expectations in reading. What do you do? You do your research and ask for recommendations. Many things come into factor when choosing the right tutor.

Normally, one or two-hour sessions a week will help close the gap quickly. Again, each child is different. Ask about skills you can work on together, as well.

The budget is another thing to consider. Some big box shops charge up to $75.00/hr., after the initial assessments. Some private tutors charge between $35-$75/hr. As a parent, you need to do your research, check out your neighborhood library, ask friends if they have used a tutor or possibly the Chamber of Commerce. Just remember cheaper is not always better.

 

When looking for a reading tutor for your child, there are a few things to remember.

  1. Talk about it with your child. Get them on board.
  2. One size does not fit all. Do your research and choose one that knows the subject.
  3. Consider your schedule what time, place, or even online
  4. Get referrals and read references
  5. Connection, when attending the first session, does your child connect with them?

One on one attention can change the world for some children when there is homework struggle every night. When your child is struggling with reading, finding the right professional tutor that is patient and knowledgeable in teaching reading is best.

I know it is hard, but you have not done anything wrong. Some children need extra support when they are young to get them to excel. Once you do find that right tutor, ask questions, ask for ideas on how you can help your child.

I have been a tutor since 2013 and have helped hundreds of children close their gap in reading and supported families through the process. Comment here if you have any questions about anything in this article. If you still have questions about if your child needs a tutor, what to look for in a tutor, or even what next steps are.

Good luck with your journey!

Contact Information

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First Steps In Growing Successful Readers

First Steps In Growing Successful Readers

In collaboration with Diane Talbot, Spiral Skills Tutoring and Academic Coaching. Diane is a reading, writing, and math specialist in Boulder, Colorado. She works with children and young adults with learning disabilities, as well as gifted and twice-exceptional children.

Ann Mitchell, Castle Rock Online Reading Tutor Ann is an online reading tutor that lives in Castle Rock, Colorado. She is a reading interventionist that works with elementary age students that struggle with reading. Additionally she is in the process of developing a small reading group for busy families. 

Both Diane and Ann share the love of gardening and teaching.

Do you have a garden? If so, does your child help you plant seeds and watch the new seedlings pop their heads out of the soil? First steps in growing successful readers is much like growing a garden. You need to prepare, plant seeds, care and nurture, and finally you have a gorgeous outcome. 

Preparing the ground

Just like preparing to plant a garden, we begin at birth to prepare our kids to read. We do this by talking and listening to our kids, singing and playing games and reading to kids. 

 

When planting seeds or seedlings, you don’t want to risk frost. Don’t start too early with flashcards or formal phonics.

 

Check out  3 tips for better reading. 

This will provide some everyday ways to help your child as they are beginning to read those tricky words. 

 

Planting seeds

You are always planting seeds of the love of literacy. You plant seeds when your kids see you reading and when you read to them. 

 

As you read together model finger-point reading with them. That means to follow the words with your finger from left to right as you read them. As well as which way to correctly hold and care for their books. Just like we care for our young plants. We need to support them in every stage.

 

Many parents wonder what type of books they should be looking for as their child begins to read. Just remember the words “Just Right” Even when those vegetables or even flowers look just right when you go to pick them you need to provide extra support as they grow.

Nurturing seedlings

 

When we nurture our seedlings we need to water, weed and watch them as they grow. When we nurture our beginning readers, read together and when your child is finished with a book, be sure to talk about what happened in the story, and maybe re-read favorite parts. Let them know how proud you are! By sharing a book with a child, you’re sharing the joys and excitement of reading.

 

When your child begins to notice letters and words around her, let her know how proud you are. When she writes a string of letters (or letter-like symbols) ask her to read what she wrote to you. If she brings you a “word” and asks what it says, show her how to sound it out, even if it doesn’t make sense. Ask her a word she wants to write just work with her to sound it out and write it. If she wants to write dog, ask what the first sound is, you can model pinching out the word, using your thumb and index finger, pinch and say /d/, then thumb and middle finger for /o/ and thumb and ring finger for /g/. Show her how to write the letters that represent each sound. Then go back and read her work. It is important that children learn the sounds before having to write them down. Make sure you model the letters for them. 

 

Just as we see the growth of our gardens you will definitely she the growth in your readers as long as you nurture and care for them.  

Celebrating The Harvest

 

“The harvest is my favorite part of gardening”, according to Ann. This is when all of the fruits of your labor have brought success. Whether it is your favorite flowers or a vegetable garden. Most importantly, it may also be that beginning reader that can blend sounds, recognize letters and read words provided on a page. 

How Does Your Child Learn?

Does your child play video games, love to dance or curl up with a good book? 

How does my child learn best?

How does my child learn best?

 

Have you ever thought about the many different ways children learn? Every day we are learning new things. The first day a child is born they learn about their mother’s smell, the sounds or voice around them and as we grow we learn reading, writing, and arithmetic. But how?

 

 

 

Did you know that there are actually 8 different ways we can learn?

 

  • The Linguistic Learner learns best through reading and writing
  • The Musical Learner does best with melody or rhythm
  • The Kinesthetic Learner learns best with movement
  • The Visual or Spatial Learner learns best with visual aids
  • The Logical or Mathematical Learner categorizes items in a particular way
  • The Interpersonal Learner learns when collaborating with others
  • The Intrapersonal Learner does the best learning on their own
  • The Naturalist Learner does best experiencing  nature

 

Even though they are listed as a learner style Howard Gardner who created the “Theory of 8 Intelligences,” the term learning style was added.  There are many books available to learn more about these 8 styles of learning. The book that I have recently re-read and read for a college class while completing my Special Education degree is Multiple Intelligences in the Classroom written by Thomas Armstrong (4th edition)

 

Determining your Intelligence

Each one of us possesses all eight intelligences – Mi theory is not a “type” theory for determining the one intelligence that fits. The eight intelligences function together uniquely in each individual. However, some may be more developed than others.

 

Howard Gardner suggests that everyone has the capacity to develop all eight intelligences if given the proper encouragement, enrichment, and instruction.  All of the intelligences usually work together in complex ways. Just like a child playing kickball. There are many ways to be intelligent within each category. Just as a child may be awkward in playing a sport that the same child may be able to knit or crochet with extraordinary results.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

An Example

Check out this video of an 11-year-old crocheting prodigy from Wisconsin shared by 9 news in Denver.

I have been so intrigued by the work of Howard Gardner and each way our children learn I have developed a course recently that provides a quiz for both you and your child and goes into an explanation of each style.

Let's Find Out

Have you ever wondered what type of learner you are? How about your child? Do you learn visually or do you need to move around? There are actually 8 different learning styles. 

Which one are you? 

“I PICK” my books

Do you or even your children know what I PICK means?

The letter I from above means I get to choose a book.  Let your child pick a book from the library in the neighborhood or at school.

P – Purpose, why are they choosing that book. Is it for entertainment, information or learning how to do something?

I – Interest, does that book interest them? It does not matter if it is fiction, non-fiction, fantasy or another genre.

C – Comprehend, can they comprehend the story or even a page and tell you what they read? To be able to understand what they learn is an essential skill as they continue through school.

K – Know – If your child were to read a page (any page) out loud to you would they know every word? Pronounce them correctly and read with accuracy and fluency?

Now that you know what I – PICK means I would love to offer you a chance to purchase my new book, “Just Right” books, how to help your child become a successful reader on Kindle.   Located here on my 

Author’s Page

 

After learning how to choose your “Just Right” books and managing to work through and allowing your child to “I PICK” their books there are many different titles available.